Sweet love letter from Brat Pitt..

Today, I want to talk about love.

Many think that once you have love, it will be yours forever.

If that is the case, wouldn't life be so easy but less exciting.

To me, love is a shallow thing.

No matter how deeply in love you are with someone, the fact is it is emotions that cloud your judgement.

Your love is not that deep.

That is why, love shouldn't be taken for granted.

It should be nurtured and protected.

Each day, every minute and every second.

As the years passed, you will understand how meaningful that love between two persons.

Just like that old couple who wrinkled upto the toes but still walk hand in hand on the sidewalk.

So remember that.

Love is a shallow thing, so fragile.

Even a single mistake and harsh words can shatter the beautiful tree you have planted.

If we think it this way, you will watch your words, and action to not shake the tree of love.

This is what I tell my husband.

Because I really love our tree:)

He might not understand much about love (roll eyes) what with being a man, but from here and then, I will remind him.

Now I want to share you a letter from Brat Pitt to Angelina Jolie.. (from Jamesrussel.org/blog)

I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon. But then I decided to act on it. 

“My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children.

She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs.

She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up.

Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role.

I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth.

She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.

I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.

You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“ - Brad Pitt

You see, as life demands increase, everyone changes. It justs happens. When you realize this, you should start to think about why??

Why is she becoming a jittery person? Why is she always complaining?

What if I was in her shoes and be doing a job as a mother, wife and career woman? What will I feel?

Ask yourself.

Maybe then you will understand why she is how she is now.

This applies to your husband too. Why is he so moody? Why does he refuse to go out? Maybe that he is tired from hours of working. Maybe that he is stressed about work or about you constantly nagging and complaining at home.

Nobody is ever right in a relationship. Everyone react and reflect on each other. I am angry because you are ...

I am being this cold because you are ..

Now, forget about who was on the right side and who was on the wrong here, lets meet half way and be better.

Turn around to your partner, just give a quick hug and kiss.

Because 'I love you' that is why. Say nice things about each other, compliment each other, appreciate every deed no matter how small it is.

Thank you darling for buying me this new outfit.

Thank you wife for cooking for me lunch.

If Brad can do it why can't we. If the rich and famous Angelina has it hard, imagine we wifey who has no nanny or way less than hers. She has so many nannies and maids to take care of her house and clan of children but still she has too much on her table. It is not easy being anyone.

Now that being said,

I wish that we will be old and wrinkle together to walk hand in hand by the sidewalk insyaAllah.

What will I do without you...

Here is to more happy years to come luv.